Not quite, according to relationship experts. Some men are more attracted to sexy, vibrant, passionate, bright professional women. They are generally bored by quiet, docile, submissive women, if not initially, most definitely over time. Other men, are more attracted to women who they perceive to be quiet, docile, submissive and more easily controlled - such as Asian, Mexican or White women. What a nasty wake-up call when such men discover that the object of their affection informs them that will be damned, if they let any man walk all over them and treat them like crap. So goes that stereotype! Still other men prefer a combination - sweet and spicy. Race also plays its part in the notion of men preferring quiet, docile, submissive women. Some Black men - trying to justify dating and marrying Other-Than-Black women say they do so, because all black women think much too highly of themselves, have bad attitudes and are gold-diggers. The media further perpetuates this image by portraying Black women as being â€œloud, neck-rolling, sharp-tongued, ghettofabulous negresses or the simple-minded video hoe - good enough to 'hit it and quit it' but unworthy of a serious commitment. Ever wonder why media portrayals of docile, submissive, easily controlled, abused Black women are far and few between? So...is the docile, submissive woman a thing of the past? Or is a new type of woman emerging...a Strong Woman who wants a man who is... ...goal-oriented and knows why he wants to be with her and what he wants to accomplish with her ...strong enough to not allow a woman to walk all over him ...capable of handling a woman 'testing' him more often and with greater intensity, as a way of proving that he is as powerful today, as he appeared to be when she first met him ...just as sexually adventurous, creative and enthusiastic as she is ...capable of making her feel safe, secure and happy in a relationship - which in turn makes her want to make her man feel safe, secure and happy, in turn ...stronger than she is so that she can melt into the comfort of the willing, submissive role â€“ until proven otherwise... ...a woman who is Strong-By-Day and Submissive-By-Night?